Getting Bi-Curious w/ Jen Winston

Oct 25, 2024

Jen Winston, author of "Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much," dives deep into the complexities of bisexuality. She discusses how labels like bi and pan are tools for personal exploration rather than societal approval. Communication in relationships is paramount; talking about desires can strengthen intimacy. Jen also tackles bi-erasure and biases, emphasizing that questioning one's sexuality is a unique journey. The conversation offers valuable insights for anyone navigating their identity and relationships in a multifaceted world.

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Intro

00:00 • 2min

Enhancing Sexual Health through Community and Gut Wellness

01:35 • 4min

Navigating Bisexuality and Relationships

05:46 • 19min

Navigating Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships

24:42 • 3min

Navigating Bisexuality and Identity

27:46 • 19min

Navigating Insecurity and Desire in Relationships

46:46 • 5min

How do you know if you’re bisexual? Author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality, in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused.

Whether you’re a vulva owner in a heterosexual partnership who wants to explore same sex fantasies, or a penis owner who has recently come out as gay but still has thoughts about the opposite sex, Jen helps us all understand why sexuality is about so much more than who you’re sleeping with. Because after all, your sexuality is less about the destination and more about the journey to get there.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Labels like bi or pan are for you to explore your identity, not to please others
Communication is everything. Talk openly with your partner about desires and fantasies to strengthen intimacy
Bisexuality isn’t one-size-fits-all: It’s a personal journey, and questioning your sexuality is part of it

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