ICYMI Nobody Wants To Party Anymore
Sep 20, 2025
In this engaging discussion, sociologist and TikTok creator Josh Lora, known as TellTheBees, delves into the phenomenon of the 'mainstreaming of loserdom.' He argues that many are glamorizing anti-social behavior, prioritizing screen time over social gatherings. Josh explores how COVID-19 and economic factors have made staying in more appealing, along with the rise of digital invitations that normalize flaking. He also highlights the cultural shift in dating dynamics and advocates for creating community spaces to rebuild in-person connections.
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GeoCities X‑Men Forum Origin
- Josh recounts joining an X-Men forum at age ten and arguing with adults online.
- He says early internet experiences shaped his nosy, sociological curiosity.
Home Pride Masks Loneliness
- Josh Lora observes that a branded pride in staying home is rising and often isn’t joyful.
- He argues many people platform being anti-social while actually feeling lonely and miserable.
Economics Drives Social Pullback
- Economic pressure and high costs help explain why people opt out of social life.
- Lora says recession and expensive city life make socializing feel unaffordable and depressing.