CCEF Podcast: Where Life & Scripture Meet Understanding & Cultivating Forgiveness
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Sep 1, 2025 
In a thought-provoking discussion, Darby Strickland, a counselor and CCEF faculty member, and Esther Liu, a colleague focused on spiritual growth, unravel the intricate nature of forgiveness. They debunk myths like 'forgive means forget,' and emphasize that forgiveness does not excuse wrongdoing or require reliving pain. The duo explores what makes forgiveness challenging, and offers practical advice for cultivating a forgiving spirit, highlighting the importance of relying on God's support throughout the process.
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Forgiveness Means Relinquishing Retribution
- Forgiveness means not dealing with someone according to what they deserve rather than literal forgetting.
- It involves entrusting justice to God while using prudence in relationships.
Talk About Hurts Wisely
- Don't assume forgiveness requires never talking about the wrong again; use wisdom in when to discuss it.
- Revisit past hurts in healthy ways to aid growth and repair in relationships.
Entrust Vengeance To God
- Entrust the desire for vengeance to God instead of repaying harm yourself.
- Remove the other's debt to you while still seeking appropriate restitution or wisdom.