Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting

199: ENCORE: How Should I Deal with My Angry, Disrespectful Son?

Dec 24, 2024
This discussion tackles the tricky terrain of managing anger and disrespect in teenage boys. Insights reveal why traditional punishments might not work and how emotional intelligence can play a critical role. Effective communication strategies are shared to help parents maintain calm during conflicts and set necessary boundaries. The importance of fostering a positive relationship with teens is emphasized, encouraging parents to focus on accountability and understanding rather than solely on discipline. A must-listen for navigating challenging adolescent behaviors!
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INSIGHT

Emotional Dysregulation in Teens

  • 13-year-olds are often the most emotionally dysregulated age for teens.
  • This is due to hormonal changes and increased emotional intensity.
INSIGHT

Bottled-Up Emotions in Teens

  • Teens often exhibit good behavior outside the home, bottling up emotions.
  • These pent-up feelings may erupt as anger or disrespect at home.
ADVICE

Responding to Disrespect

  • Respond to disrespectful behavior with calm, firm boundary-setting.
  • Use phrases like, "We do not talk that way in this house."
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