The Covert Narcissism Podcast 5 Effects of Covert Narcissistic Parenting on Our Kids
Feb 25, 2024
Covert narcissistic parenting leaves deep emotional scars on children, often leading to self-blame and confusion about love and acceptance. Kids feel their emotions intensely, but struggle to articulate them, impacting their development for life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of emotional safety and trusting one's instincts in parenting. It also provides insights into how to break the cycle and not raise another narcissist, stressing the need for support and understanding in these challenging dynamics.
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Self-Blame Script in Children
- Children with covert narcissistic parents internalize a script of self-blame because they lack the ability to place blame correctly.
- This self-blame deeply damages their self-worth and shapes their lifelong internal dialogue negatively.
Child's Hurt Over Unseen Excitement
- A four-year-old excitedly shows mom a masterpiece drawing but gets a firm "not right now" response due to mom's distraction.
- The child feels hurt and unseen, not understanding mom's priorities, illustrating early emotional neglect from covert narcissistic parenting.
Trust Deficit Harms Children
- Children need to trust their caregivers to feel emotional safety, which is vital for growth.
- Without trust, children face explosive internal conflict and lifelong difficulty trusting themselves or others.