Jeffrey, an expert in dealing with change, joins the podcast to discuss various aspects of change. They talk about the signals that indicate the need to switch up routines and how even small changes can be effective. The conversation also covers managing reactions to involuntary change and accepting new things into our lives. The hosts explore topics like generational slang, reflections in our physical surroundings, seasonal influence on motivation, and the struggle for change. They also discuss living in the Bay Area and the importance of gaining perspective outside of the tech industry.
Recognize signs indicating the need for change in daily life.
Overcome fears and take small steps towards embracing change.
Beware of external influences and focus on self-compassion when seeking change.
Deep dives
Recognizing the need for change
The hosts discuss how feelings of stagnation and the desire for change can manifest in one's daily life. They emphasize the importance of recognizing signs that indicate a need for change, whether it be a loss of job, feeling comfortable in a routine, or a sense of dissatisfaction in personal growth.
The fear of embracing change
The hosts share their personal experiences and fears when it comes to embracing change. They discuss how fear can hinder one's ability to make changes, leading to procrastination or staying in a stagnant state. They highlight the importance of overcoming these fears and taking small steps towards change.
External influences and comparison
The hosts explore the role of external influences - such as envy, comparison, and social media - in motivating or inhibiting change. They discuss the impact of social media on comparisons and the struggle to find one's own path amidst societal expectations. They also reflect on the importance of self-compassion and not solely relying on external validation.
Seasonal impact on change
The hosts share their thoughts on how seasons can affect feelings of wanting change. They discuss the influence of seasonal transitions on setting goals, feeling refreshed, and seeking new beginnings. They also explore how weather and sunlight can impact moods and motivation for change.
Forced change and fear
The hosts discuss situations where change is forced upon them, leading to fear and reluctance. They explore the challenges of navigating unexpected changes, such as job loss or relocation. They also address the initial resistance to change and the importance of reframing fear as an opportunity for growth.
Today our friend Jeffrey joins us to talk about dealing with change - both voluntary & involuntary! We discuss what kind of things in our daily lives signal to us that we need to switch up our routine. We also talk about how change doesn't have to be so drastic or emotionally deep to be effective. We discuss managing our reactions to involuntary change and learning to accept new things into our lives.