Pillow Talks E218 Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It pt. 2
Jul 24, 2025
Dive into the hilarious and sometimes cringe-worthy world of relationship 'icks.' Discover what turns intimacy sour, from questionable hygiene habits to post-birth surprises. Learn why certain habits, like the infamous 'dick flop,' are major mood killers. Explore listener stories that reveal just how much influence our partner's quirks can have on attraction. With a fun twist, the discussion highlights the importance of communication and vulnerability in navigating these tough moments together.
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Persistent Hygiene Issues
- A woman shared how her 54-year-old boyfriend's purposeful burping and farting, along with poor hygiene, turned her off sexually.
- He refuses to change, saying "I am who I am," creating a challenging dynamic for their relationship.
Set Boundaries on Hygiene
- Counsel the partner that refusing to change poor hygiene habits while dismissing your feelings can harm the relationship.
- Use clear boundaries; threaten breakup if they refuse to improve hygiene and respect.
Link Hygiene to Attraction
- Emphasize the impact of hygiene habits on sexual attraction to encourage change.
- Suggest compromise conversations centered on desire and connection rather than shame.