Revising the stories we hold dear with Denise Hamilton
Feb 13, 2024
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Denise Hamilton, inclusion strategist, discusses revising old stories, responding to backlash against diversity, and the importance of indivisibility. They explore being a truth seeker, valuing each person's worth, abandoning 'authentic', and embracing growth and revision of stories.
The importance of being a truth seeker and not just a keeper of the story, as exemplified by the altered tale of George Washington's Teeth.
Responding to defensiveness with curiosity and assuming good intent in difficult conversations, by understanding the fact pattern and intent behind someone's beliefs before engaging in discussion.
Deep dives
Importance of Being a Truth Seeker
Denise Hamilton, an inclusion strategist, emphasizes the importance of being a truth seeker. She shares the story of George Washington's Teeth and how it exemplifies the difference between keepers of the story and truth seekers. The story was altered, telling a counter narrative instead of sharing the truth. Denise highlights the challenges of navigating the DEI conversation and the resistance that comes with it.
Curiosity and Good Intent in Difficult Conversations
Denise Hamilton discusses the importance of responding to defensiveness with curiosity and assuming good intent in difficult conversations. She talks about the need to understand the fact pattern and the intent behind someone's beliefs before engaging in discussion. Denise emphasizes the importance of equipping people to have objective, respectful discussions and to validate their perspectives through factual information.
Embracing Indivisibility
Denise Hamilton explores the concept of indivisibility and the importance of valuing and appreciating the uniqueness and contributions of every individual. She compares it to the functionality of the human body, where each part has its own purpose but is interconnected and necessary. Denise advocates for embracing indivisibility as a way to unlock the full potential of individuals and create positive change.
Taking Responsibility for Progress
Denise Hamilton challenges the idea of waiting for a superhero to lead change and encourages individuals to take ownership of progress. She shares inspiring examples of individuals like Harriet Tubman who made significant impacts through consistent, small actions. Denise emphasizes the need to step up and make a difference, highlighting that progress requires effort and a commitment to improving our society.
Denise Hamilton is an inclusion strategist who works with organizations ranging from the UN to the WNBA. She is also the author of Indivisible: How to Forge our Differences into a Stronger Future. Denise and Adam discuss the pain of abandoning old stories, the value of revising long-held beliefs, and how to respond to the backlash against diversity and inclusion. Indivisible is out now. Transcripts for ReThinking are available at go.ted.com/RWAGscripts