Why Strong-Willed Kids Say No… and How to Turn It Into a Yes
Jan 9, 2025
Discover the fascinating psyche of strong-willed children and learn how their defiance often stems from a powerful sense of self. Explore the importance of connection over control and the benefits of low-demand parenting. Get insights on giving real choices and using empathy to navigate power struggles. Shift your perspective from punishment to strategies based on mutual respect, allowing both parents and children to thrive together.
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Strong-Willed Child Profile
Strong-willed children are sensitive and attuned to their environment, seeking connection and safety.
They possess a deep sense of self and autonomy, resisting control and standing up for themselves.
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Navigating Strong-Willed Children
Practice low-demand parenting and be mindful of how you make requests.
Offer real choices, ask with kindness and connection, and avoid excessive demands.
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The Power of 'No'
Michelle shares an example of a client's son who enjoys saying no.
He often refuses requests simply to assert his autonomy and decide on his own terms.
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What if your child’s defiance wasn’t defiance at all but a powerful sense of self? Parenting strong-willed kids can feel like a battle, but what if the secret lies in less demand and more connection? Today, I dive into the unique challenges (and gifts) of raising strong-willed kids. From their sensitivity to their unwavering sense of autonomy, these children often test our patience and beliefs about control.
As a mom to a strong-willed child myself, I know how easy it is to slip into power struggles. But what if we reframed these moments as opportunities for growth? This episode is all about shifting from traditional notions of obedience to fostering genuine collaboration, helping our children and ourselves thrive in a relationship grounded in mutual respect and understanding.
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