The Carlat Psychiatry Podcast Helping Kids Feel Safe: Talking About School Shootings
Sep 12, 2025
Dr. Josh Feder shares crucial tips for parents on how to discuss school shootings with their kids. He emphasizes the importance of open communication and validating children's feelings. The conversation highlights strategies for ensuring safety and promoting mental health. Additionally, responsible firearm practices are addressed, underscoring their role in creating a secure environment for children.
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Keep Risk In Perspective
- School shootings are tragic but remain rare compared with everyday school safety.
- Most schools are safe and still the best places for learning and connection.
Use Open-Ended Listening
- Listen with open-ended questions like "Tell me what you've heard" to learn children's fears.
- Stay calm, validate feelings, and be honest rather than rushing to reassure them.
Design Calm, Age-Appropriate Drills
- Make drills age-appropriate: use gentle language and calm practice for younger children.
- Include time for older students to ask questions and discuss feelings after drills.
