It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield SOLO AMA: 'Cool Girls', Relationship Pressures & The Question I'm Sick Of
Nov 24, 2025
Dive into an AMA session filled with candid discussions! Abbie rants about Aussie TV, criticizing remakes and praising Big Brother's return to form. She tackles the exhausting questions she faces on red carpets and shares insights on how to support friends in tough relationships. Amidst her thoughts on social overwhelm, Abbie encourages tracking good and bad days to uncover relationship patterns. Plus, a fiery take on public figures and how they handle confrontation adds spice to the conversation!
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The Problem With 'Cool Kids' Charity
- Calling someone's invite a 'charity' exposes a saviour mindset and social-class thinking even among adults.
- Abbie says Holly's 'cool kids' framing infantilises and dehumanises the person she's trying to
Don't Lead With 'Everyone Hates You'
- If you meet Abbie, avoid saying 'I know everyone hates you' and instead greet normally or compliment her work.
- She asks fans and interviewers to set boundaries and ask contextual questions, not amplify trolls.
Don't Amplify Trolls As 'Backlash'
- Framing criticism as 'backlash' privileges trolls and distracts from the substance of political or moral arguments.
- Abbie urges journalists to avoid amplifying anonymous online abuse and instead ask contextual questions about the issue.
