The Perfect Scam Family Fights to Disentangle Father from Romance Scam, Part 2
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Feb 28, 2025 Chris Mancinelli shares the harrowing story of his father, Alfred, who falls prey to relentless online romance scams. With insights from Marty DeLima, a professor studying the impact of scams on older adults, they discuss the family's emotional turmoil and the shame that often accompanies such deception. Chris reveals their desperate attempts to help Alfred, navigating complex family dynamics and the psychological effects of fraud. Together, they emphasize the importance of open communication and strategies to protect vulnerable individuals from exploitation.
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Alfred's Losses
- Chris's father, Alfred, lost a million dollars in retirement savings to online romance scams.
- Despite moments of seeming awareness, he continued sending money, prompting interventions from family.
A Glimmer of Hope
- Alfred asks Chris for a $5,000 loan, a first, expressing remorse and willingness to seek therapy.
- This offers a glimmer of hope for the family, making them believe he's hit rock bottom.
Unresolved Trauma
- Alfred's therapist suggests his unresolved grief and trauma from losing his wife and daughter contribute to his vulnerability.
- Distancing himself from extended family after their deaths further isolated him.