

‘Modern Love’: Gen X? More Like Gen Sex.
210 snips Jun 8, 2025
Marae Silkoff, a writer for The New York Times Magazine, shares her vibrant experiences of sexual empowerment as a Gen X woman in her early 50s, following her divorce. She discusses the surprising sexual awakening many women in her generation are experiencing, challenging societal perceptions about intimacy. Silkoff reflects on embracing newfound freedom and confidence, her journey through personal transformation, and the evolving landscape of relationships and sexuality, all while adding a sprinkle of humor to her compelling narrative.
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Gen X Sexual Resurgence Anecdote
- Mireille Silcoff observed a surprising sexual resurgence around her 49th birthday after divorce.
- She noticed this was common among her peers, leading to a cultural realization about middle-aged women's sexuality.
Gen X Identity Shapes Sexuality
- Being a Gen X woman shaped Silcoff's identity through early independence and cultural liberation.
- This freedom fostered a mature approach to sexuality starting in her teens.
Illness Impact on Marriage and Sex
- Silcoff endured catastrophic illness from 32 years old, confining her to bed for years.
- Her health struggles profoundly affected her marriage and sexual life during that time.