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Glad You Came

Sex & Relationships After Trauma

Oct 16, 2024
Dr. Chris Cheers, a psychologist and trauma expert, dives deep into how trauma influences sex and relationships. He outlines the evolving definition of trauma, emphasizing the need for open discussions. Mindfulness plays a crucial role in intimacy, promoting connection and consent. The journey of rediscovering pleasure is highlighted as essential in recovery. Moreover, Dr. Cheers explores the importance of social relationships in healing and the complexities of navigating non-monogamous dynamics, stressing the need for communication and emotional awareness.
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  • Understanding the distinction between 'big T trauma' and 'little t trauma' is crucial for recognizing personal experiences and their emotional impact.
  • Listening to our bodies and identifying physical responses to trauma can guide individuals toward appropriate healing strategies and care.

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Understanding Trauma

Trauma is defined as the emotional response to a distressing event, and it can manifest differently for each individual. There’s a distinction between 'big T trauma,' which refers to severe distressing events, and 'little t trauma,' which encompasses smaller yet impactful experiences. The key is recognizing how these experiences affect the body and emotional well-being, as individuals might experience severe emotional or physical reactions to situations that seem less intense to others. Acknowledging that personal experiences define one's trauma allows for a more empathetic understanding of each person's narrative.

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