The Gist Mike Goes Savage on LoveCast
Feb 15, 2025
In this lively discussion, guest Dan Savage, a best-selling author and co-founder of the It Gets Better Project, dives into the complexities of love in today's world. He tackles the challenges of dating amid political divides and navigates the murky waters of relationship dynamics influenced by differing beliefs. The conversation also touches on the changing landscape of masculinity and the evolution of intimacy in modern relationships. With humor and candor, Savage shares invaluable insights on maintaining connections amidst it all.
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Vetting Partners on Dating Apps
- Be clear about your political preferences on dating apps, especially in liberal areas.
- Consider a gentler approach to avoid alienating potential partners while still filtering out undesirables.
Caller's True Motivation
- Dan Savage believes the caller wants an out, seeking permission to possibly engage with a Trump supporter despite her stated preferences.
- He suggests she fears missing out and wants a way to subtly vet without disqualifying too many.
Savage's Personal Stance
- Dan Savage maintains a relationship with his Trump-voting father but wouldn't sleep with a Trump voter.
- He explains this distinction by citing Trump's actions and policies regarding sexual assault and women's rights.