EP 402: How to Have a Healthy Dating Mindset: 5 Shifts You Need to Make Today

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Don’t get caught going into 2024 with the same dating mindset you had in 2023.

It’s time to shake it up, baby!  

Inside of this episode, I give you the 5 shifts you need to make in your mindset in order to be able to have different results in your love life this year. 

I discuss how to: 

• Shift from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset in dating.
• Practice open and honest communication, giving feedback and expressing feelings.
• Recognize and challenge thought spiraling and catastrophizing associated with anxious attachment.
• Differentiate between high standards and avoidant attachment as a distancing strategy.

If you’re ready to make 2024 the year everything changes for you, I’ve got you covered. 

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Episode Time Stamps: 

00:00 Introduction: Hopelessness in Dating

04:20 Dating Mindset Shift: Abundance Mindset

07:35 Dating Mindset Shift: Giving Feedback

19:03 Dating Mindset Shift: Anxious Attachment

22:50 Dating Mindset Shift: Avoidant Attachment

26:40 Conclusion: Rewiring Your Brain for a Love-Filled Dating Life