926: The Five Codes that Make and Break Trust with Jeremie Kubiceck
Jan 8, 2024
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Jeremie Kubicek, a powerful communicator and serial entrepreneur, shares the five codes of communication to end misunderstandings and repair damaged relationships. Topics discussed include meeting people's expectations, collaborating to build trust, giving feedback without accusations, challenging limiting beliefs, and effective communication for personal growth.
Understanding communication expectations and utilizing code words can unlock effective communication and improve relationships.
Creating a personalized communication code based on individual expectations and preferences can enhance understanding and reduce miscommunication.
Deep dives
The Importance of Understanding Communication Expectations
Understanding communication expectations is crucial in building healthy relationships. Every communication has an expectation and every expectation has a code word. By figuring out the code word of what the other person is inferring or expecting, communication can be unlocked and relationships can thrive. This involves being aware of the different code words associated with celebration, care, clarity, collaboration, and critique. It is essential to be consistent in meeting these expectations to gain trust and improve communication.
The Impact of Miscommunication on Relationships
Miscommunication often leads to putting up walls, withdrawal, and lowered relationship expectations over time. When people miss each other's expectations in daily communication, it can strain relationships and result in reduced expectations and acceptance. The danger lies in making assumptions based on past communication patterns. To mitigate this, it is important to practice effective communication, clarify expectations, and understand each other's communication code. Consistency and trust-building are key in navigating miscommunication hurdles.
The Power of Creating a Custom Communication Code
Creating a custom communication code can greatly enhance relationships. It involves understanding the unique communication preferences and expectations of individuals. By identifying personalized code words associated with celebration, care, clarity, collaboration, and critique, interactions become more meaningful and effective. Customizing the code according to specific personality types and needs fosters better understanding and reduces miscommunication. Consistency in using the code and focusing on meeting the expectations of others can transform relationships.
Overcoming Challenges and Achieving Effective Communication
Building effective communication involves acknowledging past negative communication patterns and making a conscious effort to change. It is necessary to be consistent over time, demonstrate genuine care, and practice effective listening. Overcoming skepticism or cynicism can be possible by consistently using the communication code and showing that it is not merely a temporary trend. Open dialogue and setting expectations can help individuals navigate different communication needs while fostering trust and understanding.
Jeremie Kubicek is a powerful communicator, serial entrepreneur and content builder. He creates content used by some of the largest companies around the globe found in the books he has authored: The 100X Leader; 5 Voices, 5 Gears; the National Bestseller, Making Your Leadership Come Alive; and The Peace Index. His new book, The Communication Code, co-authored with his business partner, was released last November.
Jeremie is the Co-Founder of GiANT, a company that certifies coaches and consultants that serve companies and their employees. Jeremie has started over 25 companies while living in Oklahoma City, Moscow, Atlanta and London.