Ask Kati Anything Why You Push People Away When You Need Them Most
In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, we dive deep into the complex and often unspoken corners of mental health recovery. We explore the psychology behind why some individuals experience persistent suicidal thoughts without the intent to act and discuss strategies for navigating friendships that inadvertently trigger eating disorder relapses or competition. I also open up about the ethics of plastic surgery when dealing with body dysmorphia , the "push-pull" dynamic in therapy often associated with BPD and attachment wounds , and share my professional perspective on gender-affirming care and the importance of therapeutic support. Finally, we analyze a shocking listener story about a therapist allowing a date in their office, breaking down the major red flags of blurred boundaries.
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00:00 – Intro
00:19 – Why do I have suicidal thoughts but can't act on them?
06:00 – When a friend's passion triggers your Eating Disorder relapse
12:21 – Navigating Anorexia recovery when treatment is denied (NHS & Weight Stigma)
20:06 – CrowdHealth message
21:53 – Plastic Surgery: Confidence booster or Body Dysmorphia?
27:35 – Envisioning suicidal scenarios & struggles with Lithium medication
33:02 – Why do I push my therapist away? (Fear of Abandonment & BPD)
36:36 – OneSkin message
38:13 – AuraFrames message
43:44 – My honest opinion on Gender Affirming Care & the "Affirm First" approach
52:37 – Red Flags: My therapist let me have a date in her office?!
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Ask Kati Anything ep. 292 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
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