Mothering Boys - Secrets to Understanding Our Sons (with Best-Selling Author Maggie Dent)
Dec 18, 2018
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Best-selling author Maggie Dent discusses common misconceptions about boys and how they affect parenting. Topics include societal perceptions, emotional communication, and parent-child relationships. Practical advice on understanding and connecting with sons is shared, emphasizing positive behavior guidance and emotional articulation.
Boys need nonverbal signs of love and understanding from parents to express emotions effectively.
Understanding boys' communication differences and emotional needs helps parents build strong relationships and support self-expression.
Deep dives
Understanding the Emotional Needs of Boys
Boys have emotional fragility and need nonverbal signs of love and understanding from parents, especially mothers. Boys often struggle to articulate their feelings due to biological and societal factors. It is crucial for parents to create a safe space for boys to express vulnerable emotions and provide emotional coaching to help them navigate their feelings positively. Parents should focus on connecting with their sons in ways that acknowledge their emotional sensitivity and individual needs.
Promoting Positive Communication with Boys
Differences in communication styles between boys and girls stem from biological influences. Boys tend to be more single-focused and may struggle with multitasking. Understanding these differences can help parents communicate effectively with their sons, avoiding misunderstandings and conflicts. Approaching boys' communication challenges with curiosity and empathy can enhance parent-child interactions and support boys in expressing themselves more confidently.
Empowering Boys through Unconditional Love and Support
Boys often perceive love through nonverbal gestures of affection and care, requiring parents to identify and respond to their unique needs for connection. Mothers play a vital role in nurturing boys' emotional resilience and self-worth by creating a loving and supportive environment. Encouraging boys to express their feelings, validating their experiences, and setting clear but nurturing boundaries can help them develop healthy emotional intelligence. By fostering a secure attachment with their sons, mothers can empower boys to navigate challenges and build strong, loving relationships in the future.
Janet speaks with author Maggie Dent about her newest book “Mothering Our Boys” in which she focuses on the common misconceptions we hold about boys and how these perceptions can negatively inform our attitudes and expectations. Maggie is a prolific parenting author and educator who advocates for a healthy, common sense approach to parenting. She is a passionate, positive voice for children of all ages, and her wisdom is an invaluable resource for parents, teachers, early educators and anyone seeking to improve their lives and relationships.
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Also, her exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com).
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