Raising Boys & Girls Episode 144: The Elementary Years - Stage 2—What They Need
6 snips
Nov 7, 2023 The hosts dive into the adventurous and loving stages of childhood, highlighting the evolving needs of kids today. They discuss the importance of movement and downtime for boys after school to recharge. Parents are encouraged to have crucial conversations about body safety with girls and recommend self-defense classes to boost confidence. They also tackle the rise of perfectionism, promoting grace and resilience through family activities. Lastly, the hosts emphasize the significance of building spiritual routines to foster lasting rhythms in kids' lives.
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
Prioritize Reprieve After School
- When boys come home from school, offer reprieve with a snack and movement rather than immediate demands.
- Allow passive screen watching or quiet time to help them refuel after a sedentary, instruction-heavy day.
Set Limits To Teach Self-Regulation
- Help boys learn self-regulation through practice and guided limits, especially with screens and devices.
- Use simple device contracts outlining responsible use and consequences to scaffold their regulation.
Parents Must Lead Body Safety Talks
- Parents should lead early conversations about body changes and protection before schools do.
- Preventive talk reduces confusion and equips kids to report abuse earlier.
