How to Be Awesome at Your Job

1057: How to Improve Your Next Conversation with Jefferson Fisher

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May 12, 2025
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Jefferson Fisher
Jefferson Fisher, a trial lawyer, writer, and speaker renowned for his work in effective communication, shares his insights on mastering conversations. He discusses a three-part communication system for easy navigation of difficult discussions, highlighting the powerful first word to use and how to set respectful boundaries. Listeners will learn two handy tricks for managing disagreements and strategies for enhancing their conversational skills, all while balancing personal needs and emotional well-being in their interactions.
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INSIGHT

Rethink Arguments as Knots

  • Arguments often damage relationships when approached as battles to be won.
  • Viewing them as knots to unravel leads to better understanding and outcomes.
ANECDOTE

Breath Control in Divorce Talks

  • Michelle, a single mom, improved communication in her family by controlling her breath during tough talks.
  • This helped her regulate emotions amidst a difficult divorce and legal proceedings.
ADVICE

Pause With a Breath

  • Take a breath before responding in difficult conversations to regulate emotions.
  • This pause signals thoughtfulness and control, improving how your response is received.
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