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Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

168. “I’m going to die with student loans. Why should I count them?”

Aug 6, 2024
Emi, 32, and Antonio, 29, share their struggles with debt after six years of marriage. They discuss the emotional toll of financial mismanagement, including the burden of student loans. Antonio's trust issues in handling money clash with Emi's avoidance of financial realities. They explore how debt impacts their children and the pivotal need for open communication. The couple reflects on their journey, acknowledging that confronting financial challenges together is essential for breaking the cycle of instability.
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  • Emi and Antonio's struggle with debt reflects a recurring cycle of avoidance and reliance on emergency resources, hindering their financial recovery.
  • Their childhood experiences shaped their negative beliefs about money, leading to discomfort and ineffective financial management as adults.

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The Cycle of Debt

Emmy and Antonio have been trapped in a recurring cycle of accumulating and paying off debt since their marriage. They acknowledged being in a substantial amount of debt, with a rapidly climbing total that at one point reached over $77,000. They discussed emotional moments that highlighted their financial struggles, particularly the anxiety and the sense of helplessness they felt, especially during conversations about their finances. Despite attempts to address the situation, they often resorted to using emergency savings or taking out loans, further complicating their financial situation.

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