You’ll Just Know When You Meet The Right Person (and other bad relationship advice)

You’ll “just know” When You Meet The Right Person…that’s what they try and tell you.

“You lock eyes, as you glance across the room at each other. And all of a sudden, somehow, you just know.”

The worst relationship advice I’ve ever heard comes from the people who tell you you’ll just know when you meet the person you’re going to marry. It’s a cookie cutter formula that can’t — and shouldn’t — be applied to all relationships.

It’s caused a lot of confusion along the way, and caused many people to pass up very good relationships because they were expecting some sort of an intense feeling or instant knowledge when the right person came along.

You’ll Just Know?

In today’s episode I share my personal experience with this bad relationship advice (because I TOTALLY DID NOT JUST KNOW!!!) and then I offer a counter perspective to help you navigate this important area of your life, because there ARE some important things to look for in looking for love…but it doesn’t just happen at first glance.

Tune in to Episode 69 of the Love + Relationships Podcast and subscribe to the show by clicking on the button below!

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Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:

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For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:

• Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
• Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
• Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
• Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It

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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!

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