Finding Spiritual Calm: John Delony on Managing Anxiety with God
Oct 5, 2023
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John Delony, expert in crisis response and student leadership, discusses managing anxiety and finding spiritual calm. Topics include self-reflection, embracing challenges, and belief in something greater. They explore the concept of Memento Mori for anxiety management and the importance of faith in navigating life's challenges.
Recognize the brevity of life and embrace joy instead of pessimism.
Anxiety serves as a signal for change and can be managed by embracing belief in something bigger than oneself.
Deep dives
The Importance of Letting Go and Believing in Something Bigger
In this podcast episode, Dr. John Deloney emphasizes the need to let go and believe in something bigger than oneself. He discusses how the modern world and culture of self-actualization often lead to self-worship and anxiety. He highlights the importance of choosing reality and recognizing that we don't have all the answers or a roadmap for life. Dr. Deloney also explores the epidemic of loneliness and the need for human connection and community. He emphasizes the need to do the hard work of intentional choices every day in order to find peace and live a fulfilled life.
Recognizing the Shortness of Life and Seeking Joy
Dr. John Deloney shares his experiences as a trauma counselor, having dealt with loss and death. He discusses the concept of Memento Mori, recognizing the brevity of life. He highlights the importance of embracing joy and optimism instead of succumbing to pessimism and sarcasm. Dr. Deloney encourages individuals to focus on what brings them joy and to let go of the need for control. He also encourages listeners to find ways to serve others and to teach their children about character and respect.
Anxiety as a Signal and Roadmap for a Different Life
Dr. John Deloney introduces anxiety as a signal and not a disease or permanent disorder. He explains that anxiety is the body's way of getting one's attention and prompting a change towards a different way of living. Dr. Deloney presents his book, which he describes as a roadmap to help individuals navigate anxiety and stress. He emphasizes that the book does not guarantee a problem-free life, but provides principles to weather storms and build a solid foundation. Finally, he discusses the significance of belief in something bigger than oneself and finding peace in tough times.
Choosing Reality and Finding Purpose in Life
Dr. John Deloney emphasizes the need to choose reality and reject the self-induced pressure of trying to find perfection or satisfaction in achievements and external possessions. He shares personal experiences and teachings that have shaped his understanding of purpose. Dr. Deloney encourages individuals to find purpose through meaningful connections, serving others, and letting go of the need for control. He highlights the importance of finding joy and fulfillment in everyday life by embracing the present moment and the imperfections that come with it.
After spending over twenty years in crisis response and leading students in higher education (and finding real solutions and freedom in his own wellness journey), John knew he wanted to help as many people as possible heal from their past trauma and live whole, connected lives. He now writes, speaks and teaches on relationships, mental health, anxiety and wellness. He also hosts The Dr. John Delony Show where he answers callers’ questions about all of the above, and serves as co-host of The Ramsey Show where he helps unpack the psychology behind finances.