Pillow Talks

E220: A Partner’s Guide To The Female Orgasm

Aug 7, 2025
Dive into the mysterious world of the female orgasm through a partner's lens. Discover why women sometimes fake orgasms and how to navigate those delicate moments. Learn what to say to support a partner who hasn't experienced one yet and explore the best positions that enhance pleasure. Get insights on overcoming performance anxiety, understanding female arousal, and even the art of aftercare. Plus, find out how to help your partner achieve multiple orgasms and navigate the intricacies of intimacy together.
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ANECDOTE

Vanessa's Faking Experience

  • Vanessa faked every orgasm with past partners before meeting Xander.
  • She found faking easier than having awkward conversations or feeling embarrassed.
ADVICE

Partner's Golden Phrase

  • Tell her you have all the time in the world and will keep going until she says stop.
  • Make the process of exploring her pleasure fun, not pressured or performance-based.
INSIGHT

No Universal Technique

  • Every woman's body responds differently to stimulation.
  • Techniques effective with past partners may not work with the current partner.
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