We Can Do Hard Things The Best Advice We’ve Got on Loneliness & Jealousy (Best Of)
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Aug 31, 2025 The hosts delve into the intricacies of seeking advice, valuing listening over quick solutions. They explore the emotional landscapes of loneliness and jealousy, particularly how one may feel envious of a partner's affection for a pet. Insights on maintaining intimacy while respecting boundaries highlight the nuances of relationships. They also discuss the restorative nature of solitude versus feelings of disconnection in large gatherings. Through shared experiences, they emphasize the power of community and understanding in navigating life's hardships.
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Seek Advisors Who've Done The Work
- Trust friends who have actively explored their inner lives; they reframe pain into growth opportunities.
- Amanda says Liz Gilbert and Alex Hedison give perspective because they do therapy and soul work.
People Often Want Listening, Not Fixes
- Most people share problems to be heard, not to change.
- Abby says offer truth only when someone explicitly asks for advice.
Ask Before Advising
- Only give advice when someone asks for it or when they want action.
- Stay with someone's feeling without trying to fix it when they just need empathy.