#356 - ALONEMENT: HOW TO BE ALONE & ABSOLUTELY OWN IT WITH FRANCESCA SPECTER

Hello!

In this week’s episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with the inspiring Francesca Specter—author of Alonement: How to Be Alone and Absolutely Own It.

And wow, what a beautiful and important conversation this turned out to be.

If the idea of being alone feels scary or uncomfortable - or maybe even a bit boring - then this episode is 100% for you.

We’re diving into why solitude isn’t something to escape… it’s something to embrace.

Francesca shares so honestly her own journey as an extrovert learning to love her own company, and how solitude has become a joyful, nourishing part of her life - how it can become that for you too - and how it benefits you.

We talk about:

• The difference between loneliness and alonement—and why it matters.

• How to carve out alone time (even with a full life) without guilt.

• Practical tips to enjoy your own company and use solitude as a tool for creativity and clarity.

• How journaling, rituals, and walking in nature can become sacred acts of self-connection.

You’ll likely walk away with a new perspective on what it means to be alone—and how choosing solitude can actually bring you closer to yourself, your dreams, and your deepest clarity.

So light a candle, grab a cuppa, or pop in your ear buds and go walking... and press play on this warm and soul-nourishing chat.

Whether you're an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, there’s something truly powerful here for you.

Because you, my friend, are worth taking time for.

As always, I’d LOVE to hear what resonates with you from this episode and what you plan to implement after listening in. So please share and let’s keep the conversation going in the Dream Life Podcast Facebook Group here.    

Have a wonderful weekend …and remember, it all starts with a dream 💛

Kristina 💛

Dream Life & kikki.K Founder

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