135. Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith: How to Rebuild a Relationship after Porn Addiction

In this episode of Unhooked, I am joined by Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, a couple with extensive experience in helping couples heal from sexual addiction and betrayal. The Raabsmiths share their personal journey, practical advice for both individuals and couples, and how trauma manifests in relationships. We discuss the importance of honesty, the long-term commitment to recovery, and the roles of personal and relational healing. They'll also discuss their framework for rebuilding intimacy and trust, and provide actionable steps for overcoming compulsive behaviors and deepening relationships.

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Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles
00:56 Meet the Hosts and Guests
02:36 Deep Dive into Relational Healing
04:27 Starting the Conversation on Addiction
07:38 Personal Stories of Addiction and Recovery
19:48 The Importance of Honesty in Recovery
29:31 Understanding the Addict's Perspective
30:00 Healing from Betrayal Trauma
30:40 The Impact of Trauma Triggers
31:35 Relearning to Trust Your Gut
33:33 The Role of Community and Support
35:27 Navigating Different Upbringings and Expectations
41:46 The Importance of Empathy and Understanding
47:08 Final Thoughts and Resources

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🌍 Website: https://raabsmithteam.com/
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