Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties Episode 14: It Will Never Make Sense
Oct 1, 2018
This episode of the podcast covers topics like dealing with overbearing in-laws, handling isolation, warning others about bad behavior, and coming out at work. The hosts also discuss embracing uncertainty in relationships, navigating controlling father-in-laws, the influence of moving out on a relationship, navigating breakup blues, frustration with mishandling of sexual assault, exploring fantasies with the Dipsy app, and seeking advice from an out teacher.
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Handle Overbearing In-Laws
- When dealing with overbearing in-laws, try the "cheerful and stupid" approach by responding with positivity and ignoring rude behavior.
- Communicate calmly with your partner about your feelings and seek their support without becoming the mediator between parent and child.
Isolation Amplifies Emotion
- Isolation can amplify emotions like loneliness and insecurity but does not define your identity.
- Recognizing isolation as situational helps you understand your feelings and opens space for healing and new connections.
Navigating Coming Out at Work
- Assess your comfort level before sharing your personal life at work, especially in conservative communities.
- Build support by finding and connecting with queer colleagues or students to foster community and visibility.