ManTalks Podcast Dating An Avoidant? Don't Put Up With This
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Jan 16, 2025 Explore the intricacies of dating someone with an avoidant attachment style. Discover the tough behavior known as 'the flip,' where blame is shifted onto partners. Learn effective strategies to enhance communication and understanding. The podcast also highlights the importance of self-leadership for men navigating relationships. Additionally, it introduces a supportive community aimed at personal development, providing tools to break down emotional barriers in relationships.
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Understanding "The Flip"
- Avoidants feel threatened by closeness and use "the flip" to deflect responsibility.
- "The flip" is making you feel like you're needy for wanting normal connection.
Handling "The Flip"
- If your avoidant partner uses "the flip", reinforce that your desire for connection is normal.
- Ask about their resistance to closeness and if they're willing to work on it.
Self-Reflection and Communication
- Take responsibility for your own anxious behaviors without blaming your partner.
- Then, address their resistance to intimacy and discuss reasonable expectations.
