

How to Be Kind to Yourself
40 snips Mar 6, 2025
Discover why self-love can feel elusive and how self-acceptance serves as the key to overcoming it. Explore the roots of negative self-talk, often stemming from childhood and societal expectations. Learn the impact of these influences on self-worth and the quest for external validation. The discussion emphasizes the importance of nurturing your inner child and finding fulfillment within, free from societal pressures. Tune in for actionable strategies to cultivate a loving inner dialogue and promote mental well-being.
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Self-Acceptance Over Self-Love
- Instead of striving for self-love directly, aim for self-acceptance first.
- Self-acceptance is the foundation upon which self-love can be built.
Love as a Natural State
- Our natural state as humans is love, both for ourselves and others.
- Societal upbringing and external pressures often disrupt this natural self-love.
Socialization and Self-Doubt
- Children are socialized/domesticated to fit societal norms, often through reprimands and conditional love.
- This can lead to children believing they are inherently flawed and not good enough.