The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle STOP Trying to Make People Respect You & DO THIS Instead
Jun 16, 2025
Explore the misconception that respect can be demanded, and learn why personal boundaries are essential for emotional well-being. The discussion highlights the importance of self-regulation and self-awareness, especially for those with trauma backgrounds. Relationships are reframed as a balance of compromise and personal awareness, illustrating how childhood experiences shape our interactions. Lastly, navigate the dynamics of influence in relationships and discover the significance of selective engagement for meaningful change.
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Self-Respect Drives Boundaries
- You can't make people respect you or follow your boundaries; it's your responsibility to uphold them yourself.
- Trying to control others leads to frustration and confusion about boundaries.
Respect Is Not Control
- Asking others to support your trauma triggers is valid but they aren't obligated to do it.
- True respect means won't be forced or controlled; control is different from respect.
Use Separation for Boundaries
- You have the right to separate from destructive situations or people.
- If change won’t happen after asking, let go of your grievance or the relationship.