Visionary writer Vex King discusses the importance of consciously responding to situations, the significance of gratitude, sitting with our feelings, and the difference between pain and suffering. He also shares insights on vulnerability with new people. Vex King's new book, Closer to Love: How to Attract the Right Relationships and Deepen Your Connections, is out now.
Consciously responding to situations, rather than reacting, can positively impact mental health.
Finding gratitude, even in challenging situations, can help alleviate heavy emotions and bring a sense of peace.
Deep dives
Importance of Emotions and Self-Reflection
The podcast episode features a conversation with Vex King, author of the bestselling book 'Good Vibes, Good Life'. Vex discusses the significance of emotions and the importance of stepping back and observing our emotions rather than carrying them forward. He highlights the subject-object relationship with our emotions and suggests that by taking a pause and acknowledging our feelings, we can release the resistance and allow them to dissipate. Vex also mentions the concept of self-compassion and the need to honor every emotion as part of our journey towards transformation and healing.
Gratitude and Observing Emotions
During the podcast, Vex emphasizes the role of gratitude in our lives. He explains that finding gratitude, even in challenging situations, can help alleviate the heavy emotions we carry. Vex shares the practice of observing emotions for 90 seconds, as suggested by a neuro-autonomous expert. He also emphasizes the importance of avoiding resistance to emotions and embracing them as part of our human experience. By allowing ourselves to feel and acknowledge our emotions, we can gradually release their charge and find a sense of peace.
Law of Attraction and Cultivating Happiness
Vex delves into the concept of the law of attraction and its application in our lives. He cautions against tying happiness solely to material manifestations and highlights the transient nature of desires and changing expectations. Vex suggests that true happiness lies in finding gratitude and acceptance in the present moment, rather than constantly seeking external validation or achievements. He suggests that cultivating self-love and contentment can bring a sense of wholeness, allowing us to navigate challenges with more ease and find happiness within ourselves.
Vulnerability and Self-Love in Relationships
In the podcast, Vex explores the role of vulnerability and self-love in relationships. He discusses the importance of establishing reciprocal self-disclosure and a safe space for emotional sharing. Vex highlights the significance of setting boundaries and practicing self-care to nurture healthy relationships. He emphasizes that self-love is a journey rather than a destination and encourages individuals to explore their beliefs and past conditioning to break free from repetitive relationship patterns. Vex also underscores the need for patience, discipline, and self-discovery on the path to creating fulfilling and authentic connections.
Do you notice yourself reacting to situations, rather than taking the time to respond with a clear mind? Visionary writer Vex King explains why consciously responding rather than quickly reacting can have a positive effect on your mental health.
In this chat with Fearne, live from the Happy Place Festival, Vex talks about the significance of gratitude, and why it’s important to sit with our feelings. Plus, he explains the difference between pain and suffering, as well as how to allow yourself to be vulnerable with new people.