The Party Every Parent Dreams Of: Loud, Fun… and Totally Sober

Think teens can’t have fun without booze? Think again. In this episode of I’ll Do Better Tomorrow, Justin and Kylie share the behind-the-scenes of hosting an 18th birthday that was loud, laughter-filled - and completely alcohol-free. From a $9.99 Bunnings “doorbell hack” every parent of a gamer needs, to setting clear boundaries that still let kids feel free, you’ll hear how the Coulson's created connection and unforgettable memories without the hangover.

KEY POINTS

• The $9.99 Bunnings wireless doorbell that stops the endless “DINNER!” yelling at teens in headphones.
• How to host a high-energy, alcohol-free party teens actually rave about.
• Teaching kids they don’t need substances to have fun or belong.
• Using “I’ll Do Better Tomorrow” reflections to guide weekly family growth.
• A fresh take on schooling: why one daughter chose a vocational “industry school” and how alternative pathways (and gap years) can set kids up for success.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
“Life is long. If the standard path isn’t working, stop forcing your child to fit something that doesn’t fit.” – Dr Justin Coulson

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Register interest for Justin’s upcoming Boys book here
• Study proves the importance of dads teaching sex education to their sons | Will & Woody
• A $10 Doorbell Stopped Me Yelling At My Teen | Lise & Sarah
• Study links a gap year to better university grades | The Conversation
• Gap Years, ATAR Myths & the Real Path to Success After School [with Amy Dyer] - Happy Families Podcast

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Model Substance-Free Fun: Show your teen that great parties don’t need alcohol.
2. Set Clear, Kind Boundaries: Explain expectations up front—then let your kids rise to meet them.
3. Explore Alternate School Paths: Investigate vocational schools, traineeships, or gap years if the traditional system isn’t serving your child.
4. Create Simple Connection Cues: Try the wireless doorbell or another gentle way to call your teen without yelling.

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