Consent Starts at Home

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Jul 29, 2025

Dive into the emotional world of consent in parenting! Discover how to model consent and empower kids to confidently set boundaries. Learn practical ways to validate their feelings through everyday moments. Explore the importance of self-trust and the lasting effects on a child's development. Hear personal anecdotes that illustrate the journey of upholding authority while respecting autonomy. It's a heartwarming guide to making small conversations lead to big impacts on children's emotional growth!

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ANECDOTE

Child Chooses High Five Over Hug

Dr. Becky shares a story where her child chooses to give a high five instead of a hug to a family friend.
This shows the child trusting their body signals and choosing a comfortable way to connect.

ADVICE

Balance Boundaries with Trust

Help kids build confidence by trusting their body signals, even while setting clear boundaries.
It's okay to say no to kids even as you teach them to understand their feelings and wants.

INSIGHT

Believe Without Understanding

You don't have to understand a child's experience to believe it.
Invalidation leads to escalated expressions to be believed, harming trust and communication.

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Consent. It’s a word that feels loaded, emotionally charged, and deeply important. In this episode, Dr. Becky lays the groundwork for what it means to model consent in everyday parenting - helping kids build self-trust, practice setting boundaries, and know their voice matters. She offers practical language, powerful reframes, and grounded guidance for walking the line between honoring a child’s autonomy and staying steady in your role as the parent. With warmth and clarity, Dr. Becky unpacks the emotional weight consent can carry- and shows how even the smallest moments can help our kids feel safe, seen, and respected.

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