The Daily Dad Don’t Give Them This
Apr 12, 2022
Discover why shielding kids from harmful feelings is crucial for their development. Explore the impact of shame in parenting and how it can hinder happiness. Learn how to distinguish shame from guilt, encouraging children to embrace their individuality without succumbing to societal pressures. Dive into insights that could change the way you view emotional resilience in your children.
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Shame vs. Guilt
- Shame is feeling bad about who you are, unlike guilt, which is about your actions.
- It affects many areas of life, from enjoying food to trying new things.
Learned Shame
- Children don't naturally feel shame; it's learned.
- Observe how freely a child plays without self-consciousness.
Unintentional Shame
- Parents often unknowingly instill shame with offhand comments.
- Phrases like "Don't embarrass me" or "Don't be a klutz" can have lasting impact.