179. The Neuroscience of Spiritual Formation, with Jim Wilder, author of Renovated
Aug 29, 2023
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Jim Wilder, author of Renovated: God, Dallas Willard, and the Church That Transforms, discusses the role of the brain in spiritual formation. He highlights the importance of attachment love in developing relationships with God and others. Mutual mind, where subconscious processing aligns, plays a key role. The podcast explores becoming our true selves, finding peace through gratitude, and the significance of joy in spiritual formation.
Attachment love is essential for forming our identity and plays a role in our relationship with God.
Creating environments of joy and building joyful relationships foster spiritual formation and help individuals become who they are called to be.
Deep dives
Attachment Love: Forming Identity through Connection
Attachment love is a fundamental aspect of human biology and plays a crucial role in forming our identity. From a young age, we attach to others who are glad to be with us, and through this attachment, our brains begin to form our sense of self. The same holds true for our relationship with God. By attaching to God and experiencing His love and presence, we come to know who we are and who we have the potential to become. Developing attachment love with God involves practicing attachment with others, forming joyful and loving relationships that reflect God's love for us.
Creating Environments of Joy in Ministry
As pastors and ministry leaders, one of our goals is to help people deepen their connection with God and experience spiritual growth. A key way to achieve this is by creating environments of joy. When people gather in a joyful community, they are more likely to form attachments with one another and with God. Joyful relationships open the door for mutual mind, a state where our minds resonate with one another, forming deeper connections and understanding. By prioritizing joy and building joyful relationships, we create spaces that nurture spiritual formation and help individuals become who they are called to be.
Transforming Church Culture: Rediscovering Relationship
The professionalization of clergy has shifted the focus of ministry towards results and performance. However, true spiritual formation is about building loving relationships, both with others and with God. By shifting our perspective and recognizing that our true purpose is to become the people God created us to be, we can free ourselves from the pressures of productivity and embrace a posture of being. Rather than striving to achieve certain outcomes, we can focus on developing joyful connections and mutual mind within our church communities. Through attachment, love, and mutual mind, we can create a transforming church culture that aligns with God's design for spiritual formation.
Becoming Who We Are Meant to Be
In a world filled with challenges and anxieties, it is essential to remember that our ultimate goal is to become the people we are meant to be. By embracing attachment love, creating environments of joy, and nurturing mutual mind, we can deepen our connection with God and one another. This process of becoming aligns us with God's intelligence and design, freeing us from the pressures of societal expectations and allowing us to fulfill our purpose. As pastors, leaders, and members of the church, our focus should be on developing authentic relationships and embodying the love and joy of Christ. By becoming who we are meant to be, we can truly transform ourselves and the world around us.
In this episode, Jim Wilder discusses how we become who we are created to be through the lens of neurotheology. In other words, what role does your brain play in forming you into the person you were created to be?
And how can an understanding of how the brain works help us develop environments in our churches that nurture deep spiritual formation among our people and help them both become who they were created to be and fulfill the purpose for which they were created?
Jim Wilder’s book, Renovated, is based on a conference Jim did with Dallas Willard before he passed away.
Spiritual maturity and natural maturity are both rooted in relationship and are part and parcel of each other.
Attachment love is formed with people who are glad to be with us.
Spiritual formation happens as people develop attachment love with one another and with God.
Human beings often lose their sense of peace. To find our way back to peace the brain’s best path is through being thankful.
According to Jim Wilder, “mutual mind” (or intersubjectivity) happens when two peoples subconscious processing begins to line up with each other. Their brains begin to produce the same chemistry, the same thoughts, the same patterns.
Jim Wilder asks: Would God give us the capacity for mutual mind and not make use of it himself?
Spiritual disciplines create the space where mutual mind with God can develop.
According to Jim Wilder, after the Vietnam War, there was a huge professionalization of the clergy, where pastors were now rated on how well they got results in their job, as opposed to developing loving relationships with people.
If salvation is about becoming the person God meant us to be—and God was intelligent—then by being exactly who God is creating you to be, you will accomplish what God wants done at the moment.