Savage Lovecast Savage Lovecast Episode 982
Aug 26, 2025
E. Jean Carroll, a fearless journalist and author known for taking on Donald Trump in court, joins the conversation. She shares her insights on the courage it took to confront Trump and how it affected her intimate life. The discussion dives into the comical yet serious topic of what gay men might do with vibrators. A listener's dilemma about unwanted pregnancy leads to a broader conversation on mental health and intimacy. Carroll's humor and wisdom shine as she reveals an advice columnist's secret hack.
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Trafalgar Square Makeout And Listener Response
- Dan shares a 1987 anecdote of making out in Trafalgar Square and later feeling ashamed until he heard from a closeted listener.
- The listener framed public displays as potential courage and visibility for closeted people.
Expect Acknowledgement For Sexts
- If someone asks you to send intimate photos and you comply, expect at least a brief acknowledgement in return.
- Ask them about it in person and stop sending sexual favors if they react defensively or stay dismissive.
Negotiate Autonomy To Reignite Sex
- Consider whether your partner needs a predictable zone of erotic autonomy and negotiate honestly about openness.
- If you want passion back, consider ethically negotiated non-monogamy rather than secret cheating.
