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The Best Sex Ed You Never Had with Dr. Kelly Casperson

Jan 13, 2026
Dr. Kelly Kasperson, a board-certified urologist and expert in sexual health, sheds light on the vital components of adult sex education. She discusses five key areas that are often overlooked: pleasure, consent, anatomy, hormones, and communication. Dr. Kasperson also offers a compassionate five-step framework to revive intimacy in long-term relationships and normalizes the common issue of erectile dysfunction. Additionally, she debunks myths about vibrators and emphasizes the importance of safety for healthy desire, promoting open conversations outside the bedroom.
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INSIGHT

Sexuality Is Biopsychosocial

  • Sexuality is biopsychosocial: biology, psychology, and social context shape sexual life.
  • Understanding all three domains is essential to create the sex life you want.
INSIGHT

Clitoral Anatomy Explains Orgasm Misconceptions

  • The clitoris exists solely for pleasure while the penis has multiple functions including urination and reproduction.
  • Expecting vaginal penetration alone to produce orgasm ignores female anatomy and clitoral stimulation.
ADVICE

Hit Pause On Performative Sex

  • Pause performative sex and agree to non-sexual touch like cuddling or massages to rebuild comfort.
  • Drop the show and focus on rebuilding bodily presence without pressure to perform.
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