Divorcing A Narcissist (Ep 60) | Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life Podcast

Welcome to “Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life” with Laurel Slade Wagoner. 

In this insightful episode, hosts David and Laurel dive deep into the complexities of dealing with a narcissistic parent or partner, especially during and after the divorce process. 💔👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

Are you struggling with a narcissistic spouse or co-parent? Discover why confronting or trying to change their behavior is often unproductive and how to focus on supporting and protecting your children instead. 🛡️

Key Topics Discussed: - The impact of a narcissistic parent on children and teens - Strategies for minimizing harm and promoting healing - Preparing for and navigating the divorce process with a narcissistic partner - Legal and financial advice for protecting yourself and your children - The importance of setting boundaries and teaching healthy relationships - Dealing with manipulative behavior and fake repentance - Understanding the roles of attorneys, forensic accountants, and parent coordinators

🔍 **Highlights**: - Importance of financial and legal preparation before initiating a divorce - The role of honest communication with children about their parent's behavior - Strategies for maintaining custody agreements and ensuring the well-being of your kids - Biblical insights on dealing with narcissistic behavior and the necessary steps for divorce

May God bless you abundantly. Thank you for listening and being part of this community.

TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Informal episode discusses divorce process with narcissist. 06:26 Encouraging divorce, stressful process, decision is crucial. 06:48 Facing manipulation when leaving a narcissist is challenging. 12:18 Research local attorneys, seek their input. 15:38 Doubtful he'll change, don't count on it. 19:19 Narcissistic partners hiding money, help available. 20:09 Finding an attorney with key connections is crucial. 25:36 Earn trust, tell truth, help children cope. 28:58 Divorced parent struggles with bribery and structure. 30:37 Married man dating younger woman, sucking up. 35:56 Custody negotiations often lead to manipulation 38:10 Honesty and structure help parent-child estrangement. 41:37 Emphasize treating kids as people in divorce. 44:45 Finding the truth helps to understand differences. 46:04 Open, honest communication and confidentiality is essential. 50:05 Ideal book for divorcing a narcissist, step-by-step guide.

 

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