Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life

What do you do when the child you raised with love becomes controlling, entitled, or abusive as an adult? In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner is joined again by Dr. David Clarke to tackle one of the most heartbreaking dynamics many parents face: navigating a relationship with an adult narcissistic child. Together, they offer biblical wisdom, righteous anger, practical strategies, and compassionate validation for parents dealing with verbal abuse, triangulation, financial manipulation, unlaunched adult children, and more. They also unpack: What to do if your adult child mirrors a narcissistic ex-spouse How to lovingly set boundaries without self-shame Why tough love is biblical love The difference between being responsible to vs. for your child When (and how) to stop enabling—and start healing The power of strategic truth statements and righteous anger Whether you’re parenting through grief, guilt, or gaslighting, this episode will equip and encourage you to stand strong, walk wisely, and release what’s not yours to carry. There is help, and there is hope. 📚 Learn more about Dr. David Clarke at davideclarkephd.com 📘 Get Laurel’s books and resources at slade-waggonercounselingservices.com ------ 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel with any questions or topics you’d like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don’t forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at https://www.sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless you. 🕊️

Navigating a toxic work environment? In this insightful and practical episode, Laurel tackles the complex challenges of dealing with narcissistic bosses, colleagues, and subordinates. Drawing on biblical wisdom, clinical experience, and her own personal journey, Laurel explores the difference between healthy and unhealthy narcissism in the workplace—and the profound impact toxic individuals can have on organizations and those who work with them. You’ll learn: - How to identify narcissistic behaviors and red flags at work - The psychological and emotional toll workplace narcissists inflict - Strategies to set healthy boundaries, document interactions, and protect your well-being - The importance of recognizing your own vulnerabilities and codependent tendencies - When and how to involve HR or seek organizational accountability - Biblical principles and practical steps for confronting, coping, or determining when it’s time to move on This episode includes powerful scripture reflections, a healing activity to help you review your career path, and a closing prayer for all who face toxic work dynamics. ----- 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel with any questions or topics you’d like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don’t forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at https://www.sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless you. 🕊️

In this powerful and truth-packed episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner sits down with longtime friend and fellow counselor, Dr. David Clarke, to tackle some of the most common (and painful) questions they receive from those in narcissistic relationships. They discuss how narcissists manipulate, gaslight, and keep their victims trapped—and why so many women ask, “Am I the narcissist?” (Hint: you’re not!). Dr. Clarke shares his wisdom on righteous anger, trauma bonding, biblical reasons for divorce, why narcissists don’t change, and how to protect your kids from their destructive influence. Whether you’re navigating a narcissistic spouse, co-parent, or family member, this episode is packed with clarity, validation, humor, and hope. Don’t miss the encouragement and empowerment from two counselors who get it. 📚 Learn more about Dr. David Clarke at davideclarkephd.com 📘 Get Laurel’s books and resources at slade-waggonercounselingservices.com ------ 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel with any questions or topics you’d like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don’t forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at https://www.sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless you. 🕊️

🎙️ Welcome to another episode of "Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life" podcast with your host, Laurel Slade Wagoner! In Episode 62, we delve into one of the most challenging aspects of dealing with narcissists: navigating the holidays and family gatherings. 🎄 From overwhelming emotions to chaotic family dynamics, Laurel shares practical and faith-based strategies to maintain your peace and sanity.  Learn how to: -Refuse to give narcissists power over your holiday joy -Implement crucial boundaries to protect your mental health -Recognize common narcissistic behaviors and equip yourself with effective coping mechanisms 💬 Whether you're hosting or attending a family gathering, these tips will empower you to handle the holiday season with grace and strength. Laurel draws from personal experience, biblical wisdom, and psychological insights to guide you through this difficult time. 🔔 Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE for more episodes filled with support and actionable advice for navigating life with narcissists. ***** 🌟 Key Highlights: 00:00 Empowerment and neutralizing narcissistic behavior during holidays. 06:15 Maintain peace, handle narcissists biblically, reflect values. 09:10 Find healing in nature and helping others. 12:04 Narcissists behave disruptively; self-centered, entitled, provoking. 6:26 Focus on flexibility and children's needs during celebrations. 20:09 Set boundaries with narcissists; prioritize self-care. 22:30 Detach from narcissists, embrace personal responsibility, pray 25:46 I appreciate your friendship and support. ***** 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel with any questions or topics you’d like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don’t forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at https://www.sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless you. 🕊️

Description: Welcome to Episode 61 of the "Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life" podcast with your host, Laurel Slade Wagoner. In this insightful episode, we dive deep into the manipulative behavior known as narcissistic breadcrumbing. Laurel explains how narcissists subtly and deceitfully maintain control over their victims by offering minimal cooperation and sporadic attention. 🔖 In this episode, you will learn: The connection between narcissistic stonewalling and breadcrumbing. How breadcrumbing creates confusion, doubt, and a false sense of hope in victims. Real-life examples and manifestations of narcissistic breadcrumbing. Practical steps to empower yourself and stop the cycle of breadcrumbing. 🌟 Key Highlights: [00:00:14] Introduction and gratitude to listeners. [00:02:12] Understanding narcissistic stonewalling. [00:04:47] What is narcissistic breadcrumbing? [00:06:49] How victims fall into the breadcrumbing trap. [00:11:05] Examples from real-life scenarios. [00:20:01] Three-step process to empower yourself against breadcrumbing. [00:22:30] Healing activity and practical applications. [00:23:40] Power Scriptures and a prayer for the listeners. 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel at lslade4izon.net with any questions or topics you’d like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don’t forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless and take care. 🕊️ #NarcissisticAbuse #Breadcrumbing #MentalHealth #ManipulationTactics #Empowerment #Healing #Podcast #Narcissism 🔗 Links: Visit our website: sladewagonercounselingservices.com

Welcome to “Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life” with Laurel Slade Wagoner.  In this insightful episode, hosts David and Laurel dive deep into the complexities of dealing with a narcissistic parent or partner, especially during and after the divorce process. 💔👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Are you struggling with a narcissistic spouse or co-parent? Discover why confronting or trying to change their behavior is often unproductive and how to focus on supporting and protecting your children instead. 🛡️ Key Topics Discussed: - The impact of a narcissistic parent on children and teens - Strategies for minimizing harm and promoting healing - Preparing for and navigating the divorce process with a narcissistic partner - Legal and financial advice for protecting yourself and your children - The importance of setting boundaries and teaching healthy relationships - Dealing with manipulative behavior and fake repentance - Understanding the roles of attorneys, forensic accountants, and parent coordinators 🔍 **Highlights**: - Importance of financial and legal preparation before initiating a divorce - The role of honest communication with children about their parent's behavior - Strategies for maintaining custody agreements and ensuring the well-being of your kids - Biblical insights on dealing with narcissistic behavior and the necessary steps for divorce May God bless you abundantly. Thank you for listening and being part of this community. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Informal episode discusses divorce process with narcissist. 06:26 Encouraging divorce, stressful process, decision is crucial. 06:48 Facing manipulation when leaving a narcissist is challenging. 12:18 Research local attorneys, seek their input. 15:38 Doubtful he'll change, don't count on it. 19:19 Narcissistic partners hiding money, help available. 20:09 Finding an attorney with key connections is crucial. 25:36 Earn trust, tell truth, help children cope. 28:58 Divorced parent struggles with bribery and structure. 30:37 Married man dating younger woman, sucking up. 35:56 Custody negotiations often lead to manipulation 38:10 Honesty and structure help parent-child estrangement. 41:37 Emphasize treating kids as people in divorce. 44:45 Finding the truth helps to understand differences. 46:04 Open, honest communication and confidentiality is essential. 50:05 Ideal book for divorcing a narcissist, step-by-step guide.   ********** Check out Laurel's books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop

Welcome to “Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life” with Laurel Slade Wagoner. In Episode 59, we dive deep into the concept of False Guilt Syndrome and how living with a narcissist can make you feel chronically guilty and fearful. Whether you’re a regular listener or new to the podcast, your pain is seen and lifted up in prayer. Remember, your experiences are valid and it’s not your fault. In this episode, we explore:  • The exhausting and debilitating nature of chronic guilt and fear  • How narcissists shift blame and induce false guilt  • Indicators of False Guilt Syndrome  • Practical steps to overcome chronic guilt and reclaim your peace Sign up for my email community on my website for a free sanity and strength-building tool each month! Stay tuned for actionable insights and biblical guidance to navigate your journey. Key Scriptures:  • Romans 8:1  • Psalm 34:18  • Isaiah 26:3  • Proverbs 16:24  • Galatians 1:10 Resources Mentioned:  • Don’t Let the Crazy Make You Crazy (Book)  • Don’t Let the Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy (Book) Subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others find it. Feel free to email your questions or topic suggestions to lslave4@verizon.net. For more information, visit Slade-Waggoner Counseling Services. May God bless you abundantly. Thank you for listening and being part of this community. ********** Check out Laurel's books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop

Learn how narcissists manipulate and control their victims by twisting Biblical concepts of submission and obedience. This eye-opening podcast episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner exposes the tactics used by narcissists in relationships and offers advice on how to break free from their control.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subcribe, and leave a rating and a review to help us reach more people.   Laurel's Books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop

On this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses Narcissistic FOG-ing.  Narcissistic FOG-ing is a powerful and effective form of manipulation in which narcissistic  individuals use language and gestures that invoke fear, obligation, and/or guilt in their victims to ensure that their demands are met with compliance. Thanks for listening! Laurel's Books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop

On this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses coercive control and how to recognize it and guard yourself against it. Narcissistic control and abuse are being talked about and dealt with more than ever before. And so is coercive control. Thanks for listening! Laurel's Books: Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-your-kids-crazy  Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazyhttps://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy