

CIA Spy: How To STOP Narcissists, SPOT LIARS in 30 Seconds, & Protect Against Being Controlled!
16 snips Dec 3, 2024
Andrew Bustamante, a former covert CIA spy and founder of Everyday Spy, dives deep into the art of deception detection and emotional control. He shares fascinating insights on spotting liars and narcissists in just 30 seconds. Bustamante reveals the surprising psychological traits behind successful spies and the hidden struggles they face in their personal lives. He discusses the role of communication in building trust, the impact of societal norms on individual potential, and practical techniques for navigating complex relationships.
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Persuasion Tip
- Understand that people care more about their own opinions than yours.
- To be persuasive, focus on understanding and validating their views.
Rapid Trust Building
- To quickly build trust and influence, ask two questions.
- Then, follow up with one validating statement, and repeat.
The Power of Connection
- Humans crave connection, feeling seen, heard, and present.
- Artificially creating this connection can be a powerful tool.