Savvy Psychologist Understanding narcissism in relationships, with Dr. Khadijah Cyril
Jun 25, 2025
Dr. Khadijah Cyril, an expert in narcissistic personality disorder, joins Dr. Monica Johnson to delve into the complexities of NPD and its impact on relationships. They discuss how modern dating apps contribute to unhealthy patterns like love bombing and ghosting. Dr. Cyril highlights the emotional rollercoaster of being in a relationship with narcissists, emphasizing the allure and the ensuing chaos. With practical strategies, she empowers listeners to recognize toxic cycles and set personal boundaries for healthier connections.
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Defining Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) involves pervasive grandiosity that impairs functioning and relationships.
- Many people misuse "narcissist" loosely, confusing selfish behavior with clinical disorder.
NPD Relationship Cycles
- Relationships with someone with NPD show cycles of love bombing, devaluing, discard, and hoovering.
- Unhealthy relationships can be difficult but lack this cyclical abuse pattern.
Dating Apps and Narcissism
- Dating apps promote superficiality, treating people like commodities which can encourage narcissistic behaviors.
- However, typical behaviors like ghosting do not necessarily mean someone has NPD.