Burnt Toast by Virginia Sole-Smith All Your Fat Sex Questions, Answered!
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We are Virginia Sole-Smith and Corinne Fay, and it’s time for your May Indulgence Gospel!
Today, fan favorite Brianna Campos joins us again to talk more about… fat dating and sex!
We’re answering your questions, like:
⭐️ How do you navigate certain positions in bigger bodies?
⭐️ How do you talk to new partners about what your body needs?
⭐️ Are “oral sex skills” a myth?
⭐️ And…who is Virginia dating now?
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Episode 191 Transcript
Virginia
Okay, for anyone who missed her last visit: Bri is a licensed professional counselor and body image coach who works with folks recovering from eating disorders and finding body acceptance through grief. She joined me on the podcast back in February to talk about her work and her experiences dating in a superfat body, and you all loved that conversation so much.
We have asked Bri to join us again, this time to help Corinne and I answer your questions. So welcome Bri!
Bri
Thank you so much for having me back. What an honor.
Virginia
Well we have some very spicy questions to discuss today. I hope you’re feeling ready.
Bri
I’m so ready.
Corinne
In today’s episode, we’re going to talk very practically about the mechanics of fat sex. Some of the questions are pretty graphic, so you might not want to listen to this one with kids around. You may not even want to listen with friends around!
!!! And if you’re related to anyone who is on the podcast today, you may not want to listen to this episode!!!
Virginia
I would say, you are strongly encouraged to skip this one, actually.
Corinne
Moms, siblings.
Virginia
Dads, brothers, whatever. More content for you is coming. This one isn’t it.
Bri
We appreciate the support.
Corinne
Okay, here’s question number one:
My cis male partner and I (a cis female) have been together eight years. We have both gained belly weight in that time, and now missionary is tricky, especially if I need to use a hand to stimulate my clit. Plus, it’s harder for him to get as deep with bellies in the way. We’ve tried, him standing/me on the edge of the bed, him kneeling, and my hips up and other variations. I’ve been thinking about a wedge pillow, but that definitely takes the spontaneity out of it. Any tips?
Bri
I mean, I’ll dive right in.