Best-selling author Maggie Dent joins Janet to discuss challenges in raising emotionally healthy children. They highlight the importance of letting boys express their emotions, creating safe spaces for emotional growth, and navigating parenting challenges with understanding and vulnerability.
Boys need to be allowed to show vulnerability and sadness for emotional growth.
Encouraging children to strike a balance between assertiveness and empathy is vital for healthy development.
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Understanding Boys' Emotional Needs
Boys may express distress differently, often resorting to physical actions like hitting when upset. Recognizing and addressing their unmet emotional needs, such as hunger or loss, is crucial. Helping boys navigate their emotions and supporting them in expressing vulnerability can foster their emotional growth and well-being.
Fostering Balanced Temperaments in Children
Encouraging children to develop emotionally balanced traits, avoiding extremes like aggressiveness or excessive sensitivity, is essential for healthy development. Finding a middle ground between assertiveness and empathy in children helps them navigate social interactions and emotional expressions effectively. Parents' understanding and acceptance of children's temperament variations play a vital role in nurturing their emotional intelligence.
Janet welcomes back best-selling author Maggie Dent to discuss some of the particular challenges parents face in their quest to raise emotionally healthy children. "We need to let our girls know they can be strong and feisty and it's okay, and we need to know that there are times when our boys need to be vulnerable and sad, and that also needs to be okay." As we navigate our children’s moods and behaviors, Maggie believes that messy, even chaotic moments are normal in learning the dance that is parenting, and it is in these difficult times that we all grow. “It was never a perfect art form,” she says. “You're not a bad parent or a lousy parent. This is what parenting is.”
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