Welcome to episode 148 of the Sexology Podcast! Today’s episode is a solo episode during which I will respond to listeners’ pre-recorded questions. Here are the questions that I will answer in this episode:

• Why do so many women have spanking fantasies?
• How common are BDSM fantasies?
• How hard should a “normal” erection be?
• How do I know if I am “hard enough”?
• What do I do if I can’t get “hard enough”?
• How can you get your partner to initiate sex more often?
• How do you ask your partner to have sex without sounding desperate?

If you’ve got questions, I have answers! Record your questions here: http://www.sexologypodcast.com/ or email it to drmoali@sexologypodcast.com

Resources mentioned in the episode:

Books:

Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies

https://www.amazon.com/Arousal-Secret-Logic-Sexual-Fantasies/dp/0312302428

Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life 

https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234958

Articles: 

http://www.repositoryeffetti.it/2010/agoraDisfunzioneErettile/download/letteratura/efficaciaClinica/Mulhall_JSM2007.pdf

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jsm.12734

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