The Art of Manliness How to Make a Big Decision (Faster!)
483 snips
Aug 12, 2025 
In this insightful discussion, Nell Wulfhart, a professional decision coach, shares her expertise in helping clients make big choices swiftly. She delves into the paralyzing effects of decision-making and the common psychological barriers like fear of regret. Nell introduces practical exercises that clarify personal values and streamline choices, emphasizing actionable over contemplative thinking. She also tackles the sunk cost fallacy and the need to accept regret as part of the process, empowering listeners to embrace decisiveness.
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Fear Of Feeling Bad Causes Paralysis
- People get stuck because they fear making the wrong decision and dread regret.
- Nell Wulfhart says avoiding bad feelings keeps all options open and prevents action.
Clients Often Already Lean One Way
- People often unconsciously prefer one option but can't acknowledge it.
- Nell Wulfhart's role is to ask questions and pull that choice into view.
Cut Decision Time; Deadlines Half As Long
- Give yourself a deadline and halve it to force action.
- Nell Wulfhart suggests 10–50% of the time you think you need is usually enough.