Ep 367 Infertility, Faith, and Deliberate Spontaneity: A Marriage in Progress

Zach is joined by Dr. Brenna and Edmund Squires, a Florida-based couple navigating the complexities of marriage, faith, and long-term infertility. Married for nine years, Brenna—a psychologist and wellness consultant—and Edmund—a military veteran—share how their relationship has been shaped by both deep love and hard-fought resilience.

Their conversation explores the emotional toll of unexplained infertility, how they’ve learned to support each other through grief and disappointment, and the importance of prioritizing their marriage above all else. They also discuss their faith and the role it plays in their decisions, and they open up about maintaining intimacy during a prolonged fertility journey—introducing the term "deliberate spontaneity" as a way to keep connection alive even amid stress.

Whether you're navigating your own fertility challenges or simply working to grow stronger together, this episode is full of vulnerability, wisdom, and hope.

Key Takeaways

Infertility Is a Couple’s Issue, Not Just One Partner’s Burden

• Initially, Brenna bore the brunt of testing and treatment. They had a breakthrough moment where they decided to re-center as a team—emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

"Deliberate Spontaneity" in the Bedroom

• Trying to conceive can quickly turn sex into a chore. They’ve adapted by planning spontaneity—romanticizing required intimacy so it stays emotionally fulfilling and connected.

Open Communication as an Anchor

• Long conversations, emotional check-ins, and apologies are core practices in their marriage.
• Brenna's mental health training adds insight, but it's mutual vulnerability that creates safety and closeness.

Supporting Others Through Their Story

• Out of their own experience, Brenna and Edmund have launched monthly webinars and resources for couples navigating infertility.
• Their goal: help couples strengthen their relationship first, so they’re not starting their family journey from a place of disconnect.

Learn more about Dr. Brenna and Edmond Squires at https://www.encourageandempowerwellness.com/

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