PsycHacks Episode 378: Why men have midlife crises (you have to practice being selfish)
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Nov 20, 2023 Exploring the phenomenon of midlife crises in men, the podcast discusses the role of selfishness, societal expectations, and lack of self-care. It highlights the importance of practicing creative selfishness and enjoying the fruits of one's labor to prevent negative outcomes.
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Midlife Crisis Rooted in Responsibility
- Men with midlife crises are often those who have lived responsibly and dutifully, suppressing their own desires.
- Around 40, they confront mortality and realize they've ignored their own needs too long.
Midlife Selfishness Resembles Adolescence
- Men are often out of practice being selfish after years of self-sacrifice.
- Their attempts at selfishness at midlife resemble adolescent fantasies, hence the stereotypical crisis behavior.
Selfishness Is Essential, Not Evil
- Selfishness is a natural human trait crucial for survival and flourishing.
- Society's problem is not excess selfishness, but a lack of sufficient selfish concern for personal happiness.