34. Interview With Bruce, Living the Life That You Want, & Benefits of General Life Coaching
Jul 11, 2023
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Bruce, a high-achieving guy, shares his journey to becoming empowered in relationships. He discusses the benefits of General Life Coaching and the difference between therapy and coaching. Bruce is now training to become a life coach himself. The host, Danny, admires Bruce's progress and they discuss the empowering impact of coaching. Join the Chain Breaker program for more support.
Coaching empowered Bruce to prioritize his own needs and desires while still benefiting those he loves.
Through coaching, Bruce challenged his limiting beliefs, changed his thought patterns, and realized he could choose his own direction and create sustainable change in his life.
Deep dives
Living a Life of Freedom and Fulfillment
In this podcast episode, Danny Pullman interviews one of his clients, Bruce, to discuss the journey of living the life you want. Danny shares that many high achieving men, despite their professional success, can feel disempowered in their personal relationships due to people-pleasing tendencies and a lack of boundaries. Bruce talks about feeling small and defined by others, always prioritizing others' needs over his own. Through coaching, Bruce was able to shift his mindset, set boundaries, and prioritize his own needs while still being there for others. This transformative experience allowed him to live a bigger life, make choices aligned with his desires, and create a positive impact on his family and those he helps.
The Power of Coaching versus Therapy
In this podcast episode, Danny and Bruce discuss the difference between coaching and therapy. They highlight that while therapy tends to focus on past experiences and how they shaped a person, coaching has a forward-thinking approach, focusing on where individuals want to go and the life they want to create. Bruce shares that coaching helped him challenge his limiting beliefs and change his repetitive thought patterns. Coaching allowed him to realize that he can choose his own direction and make choices that align with his own needs and goals. The coaching experience promoted self-awareness, empowering him to think bigger, feel freer, and create sustainable change in his life.
Changing Stories and Creating Real Results
In this podcast episode, Danny Pullman and Bruce discuss the power of changing the stories we tell ourselves. Bruce emphasizes that coaching helped him identify the stories that were holding him back, such as the belief that he was responsible for other people's happiness at the expense of his own needs. Through coaching, he learned to challenge these stories and prioritize his own well-being, leading to significant personal growth. Bruce shares that he experienced a pivotal moment about a month into coaching when he realized he could set and hold boundaries, make choices that were aligned with his desires, and live a bigger life. This mindset shift allowed him to break free from patterns of feeling small and defined by others, and led him to live a life of more freedom and fulfillment.
Did you know people hire Danny for General Life Coaching? Not just for quitting pornography?
Bruce is a high-achieving, successful, powerful guy in many ways, but was feeling disempowered when it came to relationships, creating space for himself, having boundaries, and saying “no” to loved ones.
He shares some of his journey to becoming more empowered in his approach to relationships.
He now does it in a way that allows him to feel free and to live life on his terms AND benefit those he loves at the same time.
“I’m living the life that I want,” he says.
And he’s here to share with you some of the wisdom he learned along the way, as well as inspire you with the new results he has created for himself.
We touch on the benefits of General Life Coaching.
As well as the difference between therapy and coaching (Bruce has been using both at the same time).
Why Bruce now is training to become a life coach himself.
And why he keeps hiring Danny to help him along the way to his goals.
Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life so good that porn becomes irrelevant. He created this podcast to help those who are struggling with porn in their marriage and lives, and who know deep down there's something "more" for them if they just learn the skill of doing life porn free.
Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life so good that porn becomes irrelevant. He created this podcast to help those who are struggling with porn in their marriage and lives, and who know deep down there's something "more" for them if they just learn the skill of doing life porn free.
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